This September brings an uncertain time for many children who struggle with executive functioning. After what may have been a relaxing holiday, it is not abnormal for your children to begin to display signs of anxiety (which can play out as withdraw or outburst) as the school start approaches. For parents, this too can be an overwhelming time of year as children with executive function challenges are often more reliant on their parents for the support and preparation in getting back to school1. By applying our recommended executive function strategies when preparing for the new school term, you can assist your child and yourself to navigate this major transition by making it smoother for everyone.

What are executive functions?

Executive Functions are a set of mental skills that reference goal-directed behaviour and self-regulation2. Residing in the prefrontal cortex (the thinking part of the brain), our executive function skills impact our ability to successfully plan (short and long‐term) as well as to manage the important aspects of daily life such as being organised, managing time and controlling our emotions. Research has even shown that executive function development is a better predictor of school readiness than entry-level maths, English and even IQ3!


As a parent, how can I support my child’s transition back into school?

Step 1: Reflection

Start by making a scrapbook of things that made summer fun and what other things are going to be important when returning back to school such as the morning routine or how to pack their bags efficiently. Be creative by adding photos and drawings to make this as engaging as possible for your child! Take the time to brainstorm the differences between summer and school, and define what is ending and what is beginning. Engaging in reflective and future-thinking exercises is a great way to build their metacognition and cognitive flexibility executive functions skills4.

Step 2: Talk about how they are feeling

Many children will be anxious about the unknowns of going back to school. Create a safe space by talking to your child about how they are feeling about this. We recommend taking a walk, cooking together or going for a drive so that it creates a less pressured environment than if you had sat down with them face-to-face. Using empathy is so important here! If you would like some support on how you can use empathy at home using a three-step approach, click here to take our online video course.

How can you help them to negotiate big feelings?

If they do express worry, then start by regularly talking to your child about their school routine and what might be different so that it builds familiarity. To help them build resilience, model good coping strategies that they can use when they are feeling stressed (e.g. their friends, or taking a break). Make yourself as available as possible so that they know that they have someone to talk to about their concerns, and if concerns do arise make sure you share this with their teacher. Importantly, be mindful that they may find it difficult to adjust back into the school routine in the first few weeks because of these concerns, and so may demonstrate some behavioural challenges.

Step 3: Preparation you can do now

As the school year is fast approaching, it is essential to start making preparations as early as you can. This includes taking the time to consider the school materials and supplies your child might need. We recommend looking for a planner that focuses on the calendar view of the month rather than just the week. Research has shown that that monthly planning can lead to substantial improvements in grades as it enables students to have a picture of the future beyond just a day or week, which is critical for setting goals for those longer-term projects5. This will also give them an understanding of the planning, preparation and organisation that goes into getting ready for a new year or life stage, a skill that they will need as they become more independent for university and job success6.

You can take a look at our BACK TO SCHOOL BUNDLE here, which has a variety of planners, posters, colouring in pages, cards, and more! Click on the image below to take a look!

We know that children with executive function challenges can often find the thought of starting a new school year a bit daunting. Get them together with their friends and have them decide on the extra-curricular activities that spark their interest. Whilst participating in extra-curricular activities has been shown to improve academic achievement and building confidence7, this is also a great way to support their time-management, prioritisation and decision-making executive function skills8!

Step 4: Preparation you can do the night before

Getting your child involved in the preparation the night before will help put them in the right mindset and set their expectations once they wake up the next morning. This includes tasks such as getting school uniform ready, packing a school bag, remembering homework and even making lunch. If you are a bit stumped for lunch ideas this year, visit our Pinterest board which is full of easy lunch ideas by clicking here. Preparing a meal is key to developing so many executive functions such as planning, organisation, time-management, task initiation, attentional control and goal-directed persistence9.

It is also worth creating a visual checklist for each of the ‘getting ready’ tasks and have your children time how long each of these takes to complete to build their planning and time-management skills. You can turn this into a game, and introduce rewards if they manage to complete everything on the checklist! Just remember to focus the reward on the effort your child put in, and praise this effort to keep working on their executive function skills.

Step 5: Managing the first few weeks back

Be prepared to support your child through the various tasks that need completing. From here, you can begin to scaffold these tasks until they become independent. For those children who have known executive function challenges, support your child with organising their backpack, school materials and study area. Get them into the routine of completing homework each evening and studying.

One essential exercise that we recommend is encouraging your child to set goals for the beginning of the school year. Check out our Back-to-school Think Sheet resource below to support their goal-directed persistence and task initiation executive function skills. If you would like more free resources like this, become a member of our online Executive Function Support Group for Parents to download the Think Sheet by clicking here.

How can Connections in Mind help?

Whether your child or teen is struggling with organisation, time-management or emotional control, we can support them as they transition back into school. Your child will get to work one-to-one with one of our amazing coaches to address their executive function challenges and develop new strategies so that they can flourish personally and academically. Watch our video for Executive Function Adventures (for younger children) or find out a bit more about our Coaching for Independent Learning programme (12 years+).

Book a free 30 minute consultation call

If you would like some more information about our range of bespoke coaching programmes and to find out how we can help your child or teen more specifically, book a free consultation call with Catherine, one of our executive function coaching experts today. You can also watch our client testimonials here to see how we have supported other families like yours.

Here’s a a wonderful start of the school year!







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9Doherty, T. A., Barker, L. A., Denniss, R., Jalil, A., & Beer, M. D. (2015). The cooking task: Making a feel of executive functions. Behavioural Neuroscience Journal, 11 (9). 1-10.